Category Archives: Blog

All the stuff…

Eric Wright Akron, Ohio grvling

Agreements work two ways dummy

Everything is set for California except the rental car. I will not take phone sessions during this time.

Speaking of phone sessions, I raised the rate to $2.99 per minute. This will be the new permanent rate. There are likely to be places where my phone sessions are still listed at $1.99 per minute, but I am working to get those fixed. If you notice one, do send an email with a link to the page. Like I mentioned before, phone session availability for the general public will significantly decrease starting in January.

Let’s talk about agreements. If you enter into one with me, I will hold you accountable for fulfilling your obligations. There are ALWAYS consequences for not fulfilling it. What kind of Domme would I be if I let you ass-hats get away with all of the stupid shit you try to pull? Not a good one! Remember, I am not the one who will be embarrassed by the shit you do when your stupid dick has a level 65 boner.

I have some video projects in queue, but I have a slight cold (again) and I can’t do the voice stuff just yet. I think I am going to start throat punching people who come around me whilst they are sick. Fucking germ factories LOL. I don’t want to give away what I have planned because some “Dumme” will likely try to copy it, but be ready because it is going to be good and unique.

Click, click

hypnosis findom femdom control bdsm fetish

Enjoy this still shot from my next video; it will be the first in the slave training series.

In other news, I just added a superbly sexy scent to my giftlist. Go get it for me.

The Wind Down

I have decided to start winding down the availability of publicly available phone sessions on January 1, 2018. As of right now I will continue the text availability, but if you fuckers act retarded I will close that too.

I don’t have the patience for you stupid and rude motherfuckers anymore.

After January 1, you will be able to buy videos and audio through Niteflirt, my website, and various fetish video sites, but I will no longer interact with any of you on a personal level. The only exception made will be for my slaves; nothing will change for those of you who are owned or undergoing slave training.

The Changes

Hello submissive readers!

It is time for some updates.

First, I have eradicated a lot of the old blogs. I have decided to use this space to write essays and post important updates rather than to post fetish and BDSM photos. That is not to say that I won’t ever post pictures, but they will likely be somewhat more on the vanilla side. Don’t despair – I will add fetish photo packs for sale soon. My personal slaves will still receive texts and emails with the good photos, so this will not apply to you if I own you.

Second, I have added a video section. There is only one video for sale there now, but I will add more soon.

Third, I will be winding down the amount of time I am available for phone sessions to the general public. Eventually I will only accept phone sessions from a private group of submissive gentlemen who have shown themselves to be courteous, generous, and interesting. This will not affect the interactions I have via text, phone and online means with My personal slaves.

Fourth, I am nearly finished with My new slave training design. I am accepting a few new personal slaves, and the training is real. I have combined all of my personal BDSM experience with what now amounts to half a decade of formal studies and research in psychology and human behavior. The result is a training method that I have created to properly prepare and condition willing submissive men to become my full slaves.

Finally, I am winding down a lot of public scene interaction. Not only is My time now at a premium, but My veteran BDSM scene status means that it is time to make sure prospective submissives and slaves are of a different, higher, caliber. I have zero desire to help others explore, learn about themselves and the scene, or cater to some fetish fantasy. I am only here to dominate and own slaves for My own purposes, conveniences, and amusements.

Male Behavior

 

I have had only one caller whom I enjoyed talking to since I turned my phone lines back on after my epic cold. One asshole guy in particular stands out because he interrupted me at EVERY turn. If you have ever made this mistake with me, you will know that my response is in no part friendly. The feedback he left me is below. I post this because it is a prime example of how guys think it’s OK to behave this days.

From ssbee: Tone deaf. I had some complaints about the 3 years I spent in the fetish scene. But she was to busy complaining about being interrupted to listen. I am calling a phone sex line, not a support line. Clueless.

LOL, he hated it so much that he stood on the phone for 20 minutes, and clearly dude doesn’t know what tone deaf means. And damn, how DARE I not allow this clueless shit-face to interrupt me! The audacity! (I wish you could hear my tone of voice when I say this because the sarcasm is epic) And last I checked, I was very clearly not a fucking phone sex girl. I’m not sure what is happening with you dudes, but it is ridiculous. You pin dicks think it’s OK to act any old kind of way to ladies in the adult industry. It is not! Check your stupid attitudes, and start behaving like gentlemen.

If any of you wonder why some ladies only engage in financial domination, I can assure that it has a lot to do with the way you fuckers act when your stupid-stick gets hard.

 

 

 

Psychology & Dommes

I have noticed a proliferation of Dommes mentioning psychological techniques along with people on phone session lines offering sex “therapy” of different kinds.

#1 If she doesn’t have AT LEAST a master’s degree and a license in psychology, psychiatry, or mental health counseling, she absolutely cannot provide therapy. That is a protected term, like calling oneself a lawyer. That means, any person calling themselves a sex therapist without proper education and licensing are committing a serious crime in the US and many other countries. Do not trust ANYONE offering therapy unless you can confirm they are licensed to practice. This means they will be giving you their real name, their professional associations, and what state they are licensed in so you can check. REAL therapists will share this information with you if they are to provide you with actual therapy or counseling.

#2 Don’t trust anyone who talks about doing hypnosis or hypnotherapy unless you can validate their legitimate training. Most Dommes are NOT trained to perform real hypnosis.

#3 A lot of Dommes talk about using psychology in their sessions. Keywords may include triggers, cues, and conditioning. Very few Dommes actually know how to do this correctly and doing it wrong can have consequences. Be wary of anyone talking about psychology without having any education in that realm.

I have a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and I am currently in school earning my Master’s degree in mental health counseling. I am an award-winning published researcher, and I have done years of scientific research in areas including BDSM, impulsivity, and choice making (among others). These are only a few of my many accomplishments. Thus, I have the authority to warn you about these people. If you truly need therapy and don’t know where to look, do contact me for some resources.