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Eric Wright Akron, Ohio grvling

Agreements work two ways dummy

Everything is set for California except the rental car. I will not take phone sessions during this time.

Speaking of phone sessions, I raised the rate to $2.99 per minute. This will be the new permanent rate. There are likely to be places where my phone sessions are still listed at $1.99 per minute, but I am working to get those fixed. If you notice one, do send an email with a link to the page. Like I mentioned before, phone session availability for the general public will significantly decrease starting in January.

Let’s talk about agreements. If you enter into one with me, I will hold you accountable for fulfilling your obligations. There are ALWAYS consequences for not fulfilling it. What kind of Domme would I be if I let you ass-hats get away with all of the stupid shit you try to pull? Not a good one! Remember, I am not the one who will be embarrassed by the shit you do when your stupid dick has a level 65 boner.

I have some video projects in queue, but I have a slight cold (again) and I can’t do the voice stuff just yet. I think I am going to start throat punching people who come around me whilst they are sick. Fucking germ factories LOL. I don’t want to give away what I have planned because some “Dumme” will likely try to copy it, but be ready because it is going to be good and unique.

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Enjoy this still shot from my next video; it will be the first in the slave training series.

In other news, I just added a superbly sexy scent to my giftlist. Go get it for me.

The Changes

Hello submissive readers!

It is time for some updates.

First, I have eradicated a lot of the old blogs. I have decided to use this space to write essays and post important updates rather than to post fetish and BDSM photos. That is not to say that I won’t ever post pictures, but they will likely be somewhat more on the vanilla side. Don’t despair – I will add fetish photo packs for sale soon. My personal slaves will still receive texts and emails with the good photos, so this will not apply to you if I own you.

Second, I have added a video section. There is only one video for sale there now, but I will add more soon.

Third, I will be winding down the amount of time I am available for phone sessions to the general public. Eventually I will only accept phone sessions from a private group of submissive gentlemen who have shown themselves to be courteous, generous, and interesting. This will not affect the interactions I have via text, phone and online means with My personal slaves.

Fourth, I am nearly finished with My new slave training design. I am accepting a few new personal slaves, and the training is real. I have combined all of my personal BDSM experience with what now amounts to half a decade of formal studies and research in psychology and human behavior. The result is a training method that I have created to properly prepare and condition willing submissive men to become my full slaves.

Finally, I am winding down a lot of public scene interaction. Not only is My time now at a premium, but My veteran BDSM scene status means that it is time to make sure prospective submissives and slaves are of a different, higher, caliber. I have zero desire to help others explore, learn about themselves and the scene, or cater to some fetish fantasy. I am only here to dominate and own slaves for My own purposes, conveniences, and amusements.

Psychology & Dommes

I have noticed a proliferation of Dommes mentioning psychological techniques along with people on phone session lines offering sex “therapy” of different kinds.

#1 If she doesn’t have AT LEAST a master’s degree and a license in psychology, psychiatry, or mental health counseling, she absolutely cannot provide therapy. That is a protected term, like calling oneself a lawyer. That means, any person calling themselves a sex therapist without proper education and licensing are committing a serious crime in the US and many other countries. Do not trust ANYONE offering therapy unless you can confirm they are licensed to practice. This means they will be giving you their real name, their professional associations, and what state they are licensed in so you can check. REAL therapists will share this information with you if they are to provide you with actual therapy or counseling.

#2 Don’t trust anyone who talks about doing hypnosis or hypnotherapy unless you can validate their legitimate training. Most Dommes are NOT trained to perform real hypnosis.

#3 A lot of Dommes talk about using psychology in their sessions. Keywords may include triggers, cues, and conditioning. Very few Dommes actually know how to do this correctly and doing it wrong can have consequences. Be wary of anyone talking about psychology without having any education in that realm.

I have a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and I am currently in school earning my Master’s degree in mental health counseling. I am an award-winning published researcher, and I have done years of scientific research in areas including BDSM, impulsivity, and choice making (among others). These are only a few of my many accomplishments. Thus, I have the authority to warn you about these people. If you truly need therapy and don’t know where to look, do contact me for some resources.