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YKINMKBYKIO

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Look at how much I care about what other people think.

 

 

The perpetually offended SJW crowd has made its way to BDSM. Oh Joy!

Apparently it is ok to shit on people, piss on people, be a hooker, blackmail and use men for money, put dudes in a diaper, make fun of their dick size, put a dirty foot in their mouth, hit them with whips and paddles, and kick them in the nuts, but don’t you dare go and consensually engage in racial humiliation (RH).

Do you know who is mad about RH? Sex workers. Yep, hookers and Dommes. I find it sad how the most stigmatized group of American women are now trying to further stigmatize others within their own cohort. Alas, I am not at all surprised.

Naturally, this “issue” is a problem because it is supposedly a White versus Black thing. Nevermind that I can name a Jewish Domme who does racial humiliation on Arab submissives specifically. Nevermind that there are PLENTY of Black Dommes who do very hardcore racial humiliation with their White submissives. Nevermind that some racial humiliation is done by White Dommes to White submissives. Nevermind that men actively seek out ladies of other ethnicities and PAY them for racial humiliation sessions. None of this matters because the sex workers are offended, and therefore we must all listen to their complaints and then change to suit them (do note my sarcasm there).

I find it interesting that in trying to not be racist, White sex workers are telling Black and other ethnicities of men what fetishes they are allowed to engage in, thereby completely negating the equality and non-racism they are trying to embody and promote.

Those of us who have some actual experience with BDSM have had an unwritten rule that we abbreviate as YKINMKBYKIO. It stands for, ” Your Kink is not my kink, but your kink is OK.” People go to BDSM sites and seek out others like them so their fetishes and kinks can be validated, and so they don’t have to be embarrassed because they are doing something that much of society says is wrong, sick, or weird. The last thing we want or need is the Dom police playing Daddy and trying to tell us what is acceptable to them.

The point of this blog is twofold.

First, do not let anyone tell you that your interest in consensual fetish of any flavor is not OK. Those of you who have received slave training from me have already been trained to fully accept yourselves for who you are, so this won’t be a problem for you. For the rest of you, do know that this is nothing new. There is always someone in the BDSM scene trying to dictate to, and judge, others. I have seen it for decades. Someone is always offended. Pay these people no mind because they are of no consequence to us. Usually, they don’t last long in the scene. If anyone tries to harass you online because you engage in RH, block them and then let me know who they are. Feel free to call my phone line if you need to talk or receive support if someone pulls this shit on you.

Second, I absolutely forbid my own slaves and submissives from engaging in this kind of behavior. I will not have ANYONE from the Mistress Rage Empire thinking that shaming others for their fetish is acceptable. Yes, there are fetishes that are gross, weird, fucked up, etc. Regardless, you will not be the ones who ruin BDSM for others. You are MY slaves, and I hold you to a higher standard of behavior. I expect better from you.

As for other people’s opinions on what is OK for you and I to do together, they cannot overestimate the amount of the fucks I do not give LOL.

The Haps

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What’re the haps? Every now and then I have to write a blog that keeps all of you up-to-date on what is going on in the Mistress Rage Empire.

First, no more Podcasts. It’s too much work for too little direct return on investment. Instead, I will focus my vocal energy on creating more downloadable audio material for submissives and fetishists. However, I will be expanding on what I currently do. You will see that showing up on the site as soon as I get the content created and hash out how to present and sell it.

Second, Some types of videos are coming back. Since school starts very soon and I got surprised by the class load, I don’t know how much time I will have to make videos. But I will get a few out here and there.

Third, I am modifying the FAQ page. It’s down now but will return soon.

Fourth, I am modifying the Becoming Owned page hence there being no information on the page right now. It will be completed soon. In the meantime, email or call me if you have any questions about becoming an owned slave.

Fifth, I am adding a module for a full slave training program with and without in-person service options. This will be a comprehensive program that will teach lifestyle slaves everything they need to know about being of service to a Dominant person. This is not the same as professional domination sessions. This is REAL slave training by a REAL lifestyle FemDom. There is a lot that goes into such a program and I am only in the first planning stages, so it will be a minute before I present it here.