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Look at how much I care about what other people think.

 

 

The perpetually offended SJW crowd has made its way to BDSM. Oh Joy!

Apparently it is ok to shit on people, piss on people, be a hooker, blackmail and use men for money, put dudes in a diaper, make fun of their dick size, put a dirty foot in their mouth, hit them with whips and paddles, and kick them in the nuts, but don’t you dare go and consensually engage in racial humiliation (RH).

Do you know who is mad about RH? Sex workers. Yep, hookers and Dommes. I find it sad how the most stigmatized group of American women are now trying to further stigmatize others within their own cohort. Alas, I am not at all surprised.

Naturally, this “issue” is a problem because it is supposedly a White versus Black thing. Nevermind that I can name a Jewish Domme who does racial humiliation on Arab submissives specifically. Nevermind that there are PLENTY of Black Dommes who do very hardcore racial humiliation with their White submissives. Nevermind that some racial humiliation is done by White Dommes to White submissives. Nevermind that men actively seek out ladies of other ethnicities and PAY them for racial humiliation sessions. None of this matters because the sex workers are offended, and therefore we must all listen to their complaints and then change to suit them (do note my sarcasm there).

I find it interesting that in trying to not be racist, White sex workers are telling Black and other ethnicities of men what fetishes they are allowed to engage in, thereby completely negating the equality and non-racism they are trying to embody and promote.

Those of us who have some actual experience with BDSM have had an unwritten rule that we abbreviate as YKINMKBYKIO. It stands for, ” Your Kink is not my kink, but your kink is OK.” People go to BDSM sites and seek out others like them so their fetishes and kinks can be validated, and so they don’t have to be embarrassed because they are doing something that much of society says is wrong, sick, or weird. The last thing we want or need is the Dom police playing Daddy and trying to tell us what is acceptable to them.

The point of this blog is twofold.

First, do not let anyone tell you that your interest in consensual fetish of any flavor is not OK. Those of you who have received slave training from me have already been trained to fully accept yourselves for who you are, so this won’t be a problem for you. For the rest of you, do know that this is nothing new. There is always someone in the BDSM scene trying to dictate to, and judge, others. I have seen it for decades. Someone is always offended. Pay these people no mind because they are of no consequence to us. Usually, they don’t last long in the scene. If anyone tries to harass you online because you engage in RH, block them and then let me know who they are. Feel free to call my phone line if you need to talk or receive support if someone pulls this shit on you.

Second, I absolutely forbid my own slaves and submissives from engaging in this kind of behavior. I will not have ANYONE from the Mistress Rage Empire thinking that shaming others for their fetish is acceptable. Yes, there are fetishes that are gross, weird, fucked up, etc. Regardless, you will not be the ones who ruin BDSM for others. You are MY slaves, and I hold you to a higher standard of behavior. I expect better from you.

As for other people’s opinions on what is OK for you and I to do together, they cannot overestimate the amount of the fucks I do not give LOL.